A classmate from high school recently passed away from cancer. My heart is heavy with sadness not for him, because he is no longer in pain. My heart is heavy for those who are left here. His wonderful wife and two great children and not to mention all his other family and friends. It just shows us that we never know when our time is done here and to enjoy the time we do have!
We are never guaranteed a certain length of time we are to live, so with that in mind we should be on our best and really speak of love to others. We really need to take the time to let others know how special they are to us and how much we appreciate them. I know this is not always easy to do and really draws some of us out of our comfort zone, but wouldn't you rather have someone know how much you appreciate them rather than you regretting that you didn't get to say it and they passed away?
I am going to challenge myself to let others know I love them and really do appreciate them and what they do! Who else is up to this challenge?
God calls us to be courageous and this is a courageous act. He also calls us to love one another and this will challenge us to show our love!
I am curious to know who else is going to do this. So please let me know and also let me know how it is going for you.
Saturday, November 10, 2012
Saturday, October 6, 2012
Thick skin
I have been trying to live a "Christian lifestyle" for eighteen years and one thing that I have learned and actually am still learning is not to be easily offended. I am truly blessed to have met a godly man who encourages my walk with my Heavenly Father and who often shares the same passion of ministries. In our years of service we have encountered the "nightmares" of ministry. This includes discouraging and negative comments, actions from others opposite of our intentions and even the feeling of those going behind our backs.
I write all this not to be discouraging but to remind there this is nothing new to God. Anything that happens now has happened before. The scripture states in Ecclesiastes 1:9, "and there is nothing new under the sun." What we have gone through in the past has already happened before. This was not a new experience; it was new to us! As I was battling my hurt and bitterness, my husband came across a great sermon by John Piper. This was divine intervention and felt like the sermon was meant just for us.
God has written great examples of other men who have experienced what we have. Look at writings of Paul. Paul experienced much while on Earth and still kept his faith and his sight on furthering the gospel. In fact he was abandoned by his fellow believers in his time of great need. In 2 Timothy starting at verse 9 Paul was at trial in the courts and no one stood by him. How awful that must have been for Paul! At least Tom and I had each other in all the different experiences and could share our burdens. It would have been extremely difficult to handle without a fellow believer by my side. Paul does not get offended by by being deserted. He does the exact opposite; he forgives them! Amazing to read and incomprehensible to us average humans, I would not have had the same reaction. Paul's sight is clearly on Jesus and his writings reflect that. This was a huge wake up call for me. If a man who was going through far more trials in life than I can forgive other believers for abandoning him, then why can I not do the same? Now don't get me wrong this was not a fix in the snap of a finger! It does take time for emotions and thought processes to work themselves out and much prayer. I kept reminding myself of Paul as I worked through the process of forgiveness.
I had to remind myself that what I took as offense may not have been meant for offense. Paul conveys in other writings that other believers did not always agree on the same method, but they did agree on furthering the gospel. It is important to take a step back and look to see if the actions of others is meant to further the gospel. I needed to have a different perspective. Instead of me thinking I was the victim and these people did this to me, I needed to look and see what the intentions of the others was. This would be sure to prove that others were not out to offend they were merely taking action on where they felt called. More prayer and conversing with God was what got us through our time of healing.
Offense will happen again. It is a guarantee while we are here on Earth. It will be my choice in how I react to these offenses that will make all the difference. I need to develop a "thick skin" with the help of my Father and by reading His word.
I write all this not to be discouraging but to remind there this is nothing new to God. Anything that happens now has happened before. The scripture states in Ecclesiastes 1:9, "and there is nothing new under the sun." What we have gone through in the past has already happened before. This was not a new experience; it was new to us! As I was battling my hurt and bitterness, my husband came across a great sermon by John Piper. This was divine intervention and felt like the sermon was meant just for us.
God has written great examples of other men who have experienced what we have. Look at writings of Paul. Paul experienced much while on Earth and still kept his faith and his sight on furthering the gospel. In fact he was abandoned by his fellow believers in his time of great need. In 2 Timothy starting at verse 9 Paul was at trial in the courts and no one stood by him. How awful that must have been for Paul! At least Tom and I had each other in all the different experiences and could share our burdens. It would have been extremely difficult to handle without a fellow believer by my side. Paul does not get offended by by being deserted. He does the exact opposite; he forgives them! Amazing to read and incomprehensible to us average humans, I would not have had the same reaction. Paul's sight is clearly on Jesus and his writings reflect that. This was a huge wake up call for me. If a man who was going through far more trials in life than I can forgive other believers for abandoning him, then why can I not do the same? Now don't get me wrong this was not a fix in the snap of a finger! It does take time for emotions and thought processes to work themselves out and much prayer. I kept reminding myself of Paul as I worked through the process of forgiveness.
I had to remind myself that what I took as offense may not have been meant for offense. Paul conveys in other writings that other believers did not always agree on the same method, but they did agree on furthering the gospel. It is important to take a step back and look to see if the actions of others is meant to further the gospel. I needed to have a different perspective. Instead of me thinking I was the victim and these people did this to me, I needed to look and see what the intentions of the others was. This would be sure to prove that others were not out to offend they were merely taking action on where they felt called. More prayer and conversing with God was what got us through our time of healing.
Offense will happen again. It is a guarantee while we are here on Earth. It will be my choice in how I react to these offenses that will make all the difference. I need to develop a "thick skin" with the help of my Father and by reading His word.
Monday, June 25, 2012
A Humorous teaching moment
I truly love kids! They say the best things at times! My kids are no exception to this truth. Even as they have grown into the double digits, we still have moments of pure enjoyment from their comments. This recently happend about two months ago. I just have to share this moment since it turned into another teaching moment.
Our church has communion once a month, a practice established years back. This particular Sunday our church was quite populated, always a good problem, and we unfortunately did not get to sit all together as a family like we usually do. At this time our middle child was sitting in a pew ahead of us and an aisle away. He ended up moving all the way down to make room for a family we did not know. That was very gentlemanly of him! A proud moment for a parent. Our Pastor started with asking all of us to stand if we have accepted Christ as our personal Savior. Then he went through years of being saved. Seth had taken note that the dad of the family sitting next to him stood up for being saved. So the service continues and the Lord's supper is presented. Our pastor always welcomes fellow believers for communion. The contents of the small cracker are passed and Seth hands it to his neighbor who passes without taking one.
Seth simply turns to the man and innocently asks, "Are you allergic?"
The man replies with a small smile and "No" and gently pats Seth on his back.
Now for us adults this moment just makes me smile and laugh. I truly enjoy my kids! Moments like these I even say that to them! I was even shocked that Seth had enough courage to ask the man that himself.
Seth told me he was confused because the man had stood up in the service if you were saved. We do have many friends who have very sensitive food allergies so he was just trying to make sense of this in his own mind. So this was now my turn to make it a teachable moment.
I explained to Seth that in the New Testament scriptures it says to examine ourselves.
For whenever you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord's death until he comes. 1 Corinthians 11:26 (NIV)
I further explained that we need to look at our own lives and make sure we are in line with God's best for us. If we find that we are outright sinning then we should pass on communion. I also told him the man could have other reasons for passing the communion plate and it is not our job to judge him.
What a great moment for us to continue our learning of God's Word!
Friday, March 9, 2012
The "and then" instead of the "what if"
Our wondrous vacation date had finally arrived! We had planned to leave around 6 in the morning, everyone was super excited! In fact, the kids were so excited they all went to bed early and we had no arguments about it. Tom and I hit the hay early too because we both knew that we had a long traveling day ahead of us. We decided that we wouldn’t set the alarm and would just get up whenever we awoke. No problems there, since I’ve hit that pre-menopausal state my body wakes me up early (and I mean early) every morning. This time was no exception. I woke up eyes wide open at 3 a.m.! Tom must have been excited because he heard me get up and said, “Do you want to get up and go now?”
I replied with, “Might as well, we have a long way to go.”
Our plans for our vacation included a trip to Orlando with making a stop in Warner Robbins, GA. The first leg of our journey would be about 13 hours in the van. The kids had packed DVDs, books, computer, Nintendo DS and of course snacks. They were all set to make this journey. Tom had done most of the packing of luggage the night before so all that was needed was our few belongings and we were off! We had our traditional word of prayer before we left and we all piled into the van. It was 8 degrees outside! Wow! That was cold! We opted not to take coats since we were heading south and we would be in the van, our coats would just take up more space. Good thing Kyanne and I brought small lap fleece blankets.
Our faith was tested literally within minutes of our trip. Tom had stopped at the ATM to withdraw cash for the road trip south and the machine replied with, “YOU HAVE EXCEEDED YOUR LIMIT”. My heart started to race immediately, it was 4 in the morning and the only way our card could have exceeded the limit was if someone had stolen our information. “GREAT!” my mind screamed, “headed out on vacation, reservations made, van packed, excited family and now it’s going to be ruined!” My husband remained calm and simply claimed, “The machine must be out of money, and we’ll stop at another one on our way.” Wow! I was impressed with his composure. I am sure I looked calm on the outside; however, my mind was running 100 miles per hour. I kept thinking of all the phone calls I would need to make and the worst part it was Sunday. I would have to wait a whole day before things could be resolved. I decided that if my husband could keep his composure then I surely should. I grabbed a hold of my thoughts and reminded myself, “You just had prayer about this being a safe and wonderful vacation, now just keep your FAITH that God will work this out.” So while we drove to the next bank location I said a small prayer. Instead of me freaking out about the “what ifs” I decided to rely on God for the “and then”. We arrived at the next ATM, Tom tried the transaction and the first time it was the same response, “YOU HAVE EXCEEDED YOUR LIMIT”. So he decided to try something different and “voila” our money was dispensed. We both let out a huge “WHEW!” as we looked at each other. He gathered his card and funds and we headed on our way.
What a lesson to our kids (and ourselves) about having faith, remaining calm in the situation and leaning on God to provide. This may seem trivial to some, but to those who believe understand completely what message this story brings. This lesson in our life journey brought certain scripture to my mind. In Proverbs 3:5 it states, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;” We definitely learned that we had put our trust in God that early Sunday morning. It is much more peaceful to talk about the “AND THEN” in our lives rather than letting our minds race to all the “WHAT IFS” that might happen.
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
A Case of the Teachers Being Taught
Tom and I had prepared the lesson for Sunday School for our Junior High group. The curriculum is very teacher friendly and lays it all out in a very basic format. We both have learned through teaching that many times the lessons take a shape of their own. You really never know what a Junior High kid might say and where your lesson will go from there. Lately, our lessons have really been hitting home for both Tom and me and this last week was no exception. Just because we are the teachers does not mean we can't learn, right? RIGHT!
Our lesson this last Sunday was titled "Handling the Pain of Divorce" and we started our lesson with scripture reading of Isaiah 43:1-2 1
But now, this is what the LORD says— he who created you, Jacob,
he who formed you, Israel:
“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;
I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
2 When you pass through the waters,
I will be with you;
and when you pass through the rivers,
they will not sweep over you.
When you walk through the fire,
you will not be burned;
the flames will not set you ablaze.
The lesson went on to discuss how God will never leave us alone, that God will give us strength and mostly that God's love is greater than our pain. Pretty powerful lesson for Junior High kids. We began discussing these and Tom and I could easily see the application of this lesson in our lives. Not that we are handling divorce, but more of our daily real life challenges. We recently had vehicle problems twice in the past week, along with our dryer not wanting to work and also our bathroom shower faucet totally breaking. A week of problems compounded with us trying to get the family ready for our long awaited family vacation. Tom and I were fretting over the cost of the latest issue of our van and when we found out that a job of $200.00 is actually covered under warranty we were ecstatic! Tom took that teachable moment right then and there to say to our children, "See, when I talk about God being there? I'm not just making it up, but He actually does care and surprises us with blessings!" He continued with saying, "these lessons we talk about in Sunday school apply to everyone not just the teens."
Why is that we as Christians say we have faith but act surprised when God blesses us? I am guilty of this all the time! I think part of me thinks that it's because I don't deserve it, which is true. This is God's sovereign grace! I am so thankful that He gives me blessings instead of what I actually deserve because that is God's mercy. We who are believers are His children and what lovely gifts the Father bestows on His children! I need to remind myself of this often and remind my own children as well so that they may see the glory of God living right out in front of them.
Teaching Sunday school to a group of Junior high kids has been quite experience for both Tom and me. We continue to be taught as we teach!
Our lesson this last Sunday was titled "Handling the Pain of Divorce" and we started our lesson with scripture reading of Isaiah 43:1-2 1
But now, this is what the LORD says— he who created you, Jacob,
he who formed you, Israel:
“Do not fear, for I have redeemed you;
I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
2 When you pass through the waters,
I will be with you;
and when you pass through the rivers,
they will not sweep over you.
When you walk through the fire,
you will not be burned;
the flames will not set you ablaze.
The lesson went on to discuss how God will never leave us alone, that God will give us strength and mostly that God's love is greater than our pain. Pretty powerful lesson for Junior High kids. We began discussing these and Tom and I could easily see the application of this lesson in our lives. Not that we are handling divorce, but more of our daily real life challenges. We recently had vehicle problems twice in the past week, along with our dryer not wanting to work and also our bathroom shower faucet totally breaking. A week of problems compounded with us trying to get the family ready for our long awaited family vacation. Tom and I were fretting over the cost of the latest issue of our van and when we found out that a job of $200.00 is actually covered under warranty we were ecstatic! Tom took that teachable moment right then and there to say to our children, "See, when I talk about God being there? I'm not just making it up, but He actually does care and surprises us with blessings!" He continued with saying, "these lessons we talk about in Sunday school apply to everyone not just the teens."
Why is that we as Christians say we have faith but act surprised when God blesses us? I am guilty of this all the time! I think part of me thinks that it's because I don't deserve it, which is true. This is God's sovereign grace! I am so thankful that He gives me blessings instead of what I actually deserve because that is God's mercy. We who are believers are His children and what lovely gifts the Father bestows on His children! I need to remind myself of this often and remind my own children as well so that they may see the glory of God living right out in front of them.
Teaching Sunday school to a group of Junior high kids has been quite experience for both Tom and me. We continue to be taught as we teach!
Saturday, January 28, 2012
Attitude Adjustment
It never ceases to amaze me how reading the Bible can give me an attitude adjustment! I was all set in my mind and heart, I had my topic all picked and was set out to prove others they were in the wrong. I grabbed my well worn Bible and sat down with paper and pen ready to gather my ammunition for battle. I scoured through my concordance, but to not avail. I was not finding the verses I needed. So next step? Tom's Bible! Yes! He has as a huge ESV that contains way more information than one person could ever retain. I know his Bible will have what I need! I was wrong again. I could not any scriptures that fit what I wanted to say. If you are reading this carefully, then you just caught that last part "of what I wanted."
So I go to the newest technology. . . THE INTERNET, our largest resource that can quickly dispense information in less time than a blink of the eye. I simply type in a short phrase and hit search and PRESTO - thousands of sites are at my disposal. I'm elated to find so many sites that will fit what I have been looking for. God has a way of working things out for His glory, because as soon as I look at the first site the Holy Spirit is speaking to me. I am fighting this internally and ask myself, "How can I be wrong?"
"I did the right thing, didn't I?"
I know and feel at peace that I did the right thing; however, my attitude was not of Christ. I had a gentle reminder that our greatest commandments are to "LOVE GOD LOVE OTHERS". I know my attitude was the farthest thing from showing love.
A old wise saying came to mind as I was reading through scripture verses. "If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all." This very wise saying can be stemmed from 1 Peter 3:8-11 " Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. 9 Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. 10 For, “Whoever would love life and see good days
must keep their tongue from evil and their lips from deceitful speech. They must turn from evil and do good; they must seek peace and pursue it." (NIV)
Even though my actions were right for my beliefs; my mouth and attitude were very wrong.
It's a great thing to know that God does not keep record of wrong doing (1 Cor. 13) because God is LOVE. I would be in serious trouble if this were not true! I have learned a valuable lesson and I am so grateful that I have such a wonderful, gentle Teacher.
So I go to the newest technology. . . THE INTERNET, our largest resource that can quickly dispense information in less time than a blink of the eye. I simply type in a short phrase and hit search and PRESTO - thousands of sites are at my disposal. I'm elated to find so many sites that will fit what I have been looking for. God has a way of working things out for His glory, because as soon as I look at the first site the Holy Spirit is speaking to me. I am fighting this internally and ask myself, "How can I be wrong?"
"I did the right thing, didn't I?"
I know and feel at peace that I did the right thing; however, my attitude was not of Christ. I had a gentle reminder that our greatest commandments are to "LOVE GOD LOVE OTHERS". I know my attitude was the farthest thing from showing love.
A old wise saying came to mind as I was reading through scripture verses. "If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all." This very wise saying can be stemmed from 1 Peter 3:8-11 " Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. 9 Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. 10 For, “Whoever would love life and see good days
must keep their tongue from evil and their lips from deceitful speech. They must turn from evil and do good; they must seek peace and pursue it." (NIV)
Even though my actions were right for my beliefs; my mouth and attitude were very wrong.
It's a great thing to know that God does not keep record of wrong doing (1 Cor. 13) because God is LOVE. I would be in serious trouble if this were not true! I have learned a valuable lesson and I am so grateful that I have such a wonderful, gentle Teacher.
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Growing Old with Dignity continued
"My life is in your hands," she says weepingly on the phone. Talk about tugging on those heart strings!
"Yes, Grandma. I know. I'll take care of you," is my somber reply.
I have been her "go to girl" for about six years now and increasingly so the past few years. She often comments to others "I don't know what I would do without her." That comments warms my heart and I just feel simple pleasure that I can payback all she has done for me the past forty (almost forty-one) years.
Small things like setting her answering machine, clocks, microwave, nightlight timers were things I would do for her. Now that she is in adult foster care home my repsonsibilities have slightly shifted. Those tasks are no longer mine; however, I do still assist with various doctor, hair, eye, ear appointments and all her paperwork and mail.
She tells me that she is due for a haircut and would like it this week. A little demanding? Sometimes she can be, but that just reminds me where I get that character trait. I remind her that it's only been a month and she wants to argue about that. So I simply tell her that I will call and see what her hairdresser has available. That answer appeases her!
She really had an agenda in her mind and admitted she wanted her hair done before my mother made it down again.
Her statement was "So your mom knows I'm being taken care of." I chuckle on the inside because really what she is saying is "I want to get out." You would have to know my grandmother to know how to translate her words. I know her very well!
I'll be the good granddaughter and make the call and get her scheduled for her haircut. Let's face it if you are a girl then you know that having your hair done just lifts your spirits! She deserves the dignity of looking and feeling good as much as she is able.
"Yes, Grandma. I know. I'll take care of you," is my somber reply.
I have been her "go to girl" for about six years now and increasingly so the past few years. She often comments to others "I don't know what I would do without her." That comments warms my heart and I just feel simple pleasure that I can payback all she has done for me the past forty (almost forty-one) years.
Small things like setting her answering machine, clocks, microwave, nightlight timers were things I would do for her. Now that she is in adult foster care home my repsonsibilities have slightly shifted. Those tasks are no longer mine; however, I do still assist with various doctor, hair, eye, ear appointments and all her paperwork and mail.
She tells me that she is due for a haircut and would like it this week. A little demanding? Sometimes she can be, but that just reminds me where I get that character trait. I remind her that it's only been a month and she wants to argue about that. So I simply tell her that I will call and see what her hairdresser has available. That answer appeases her!
She really had an agenda in her mind and admitted she wanted her hair done before my mother made it down again.
Her statement was "So your mom knows I'm being taken care of." I chuckle on the inside because really what she is saying is "I want to get out." You would have to know my grandmother to know how to translate her words. I know her very well!
I'll be the good granddaughter and make the call and get her scheduled for her haircut. Let's face it if you are a girl then you know that having your hair done just lifts your spirits! She deserves the dignity of looking and feeling good as much as she is able.
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Growing Old with Dignity
I muster up my inner courage as I drive to my grandmother's new place of residence. My heart is breaking on the inside because she can no longer live in her home of fifty-eight years. She requires more monitoring and assistance with simple daily activities. So the only logical solution was to relocate her to a place where she can be cared for at the level she requires.
Today she has an eye appointment. I am the one who gets to assist in taking her. This is a critical appointment for her and could result in bad news. Her eyes have deteriorated much with Macular Degeneration. The doctor could very well claim her to be "legally blind". She is well aware of her failing eyesight because the books she loves to read are no longer an option.
Part of my perks in being the local granddaughter was picking out large print books for my grandma at our local library. I would peruse the shelves in the Large Print section searching for Westerns and Mysteries, these were her favorites. I would quickly skim the synopsis on the back cover to determine if it would be a good one for grandma. She would let me know what books she enjoyed. She has never had a problem voicing her opinion. I guess I get that character trait from her! Her days of reading have come to a close. The large print is not legible for her poor eyes. One of her favorite pastimes is no longer available due to her deteriorating eyes. I am heartbroken for her once again!
We sit there together at the doctor's office and she asks me, "What is going to happen to my eyes?" This is now my moment of truth. Do I give her the honest answer or do I sugar coat it? Of course I respect my grandmother and the dignity she deserves. I let her know the end result of her disease will be blindness. She is aware of this, she had a friend who had this disease and she has been told in the past what will happen. She confides in me, "I hope I go before then." In all honesty I hope that for her as well. Watching a loved one slowly decay in front of you is not an easy thing. I am very proud of my grandma for all those years she lived independently. I am going to give her the dignity she deserves!
On our way back I surprise her with a coke from McDonald's; that made her day so much brighter! It's the small things now that make a difference. I am going to keep up with the small things!
Today she has an eye appointment. I am the one who gets to assist in taking her. This is a critical appointment for her and could result in bad news. Her eyes have deteriorated much with Macular Degeneration. The doctor could very well claim her to be "legally blind". She is well aware of her failing eyesight because the books she loves to read are no longer an option.
Part of my perks in being the local granddaughter was picking out large print books for my grandma at our local library. I would peruse the shelves in the Large Print section searching for Westerns and Mysteries, these were her favorites. I would quickly skim the synopsis on the back cover to determine if it would be a good one for grandma. She would let me know what books she enjoyed. She has never had a problem voicing her opinion. I guess I get that character trait from her! Her days of reading have come to a close. The large print is not legible for her poor eyes. One of her favorite pastimes is no longer available due to her deteriorating eyes. I am heartbroken for her once again!
We sit there together at the doctor's office and she asks me, "What is going to happen to my eyes?" This is now my moment of truth. Do I give her the honest answer or do I sugar coat it? Of course I respect my grandmother and the dignity she deserves. I let her know the end result of her disease will be blindness. She is aware of this, she had a friend who had this disease and she has been told in the past what will happen. She confides in me, "I hope I go before then." In all honesty I hope that for her as well. Watching a loved one slowly decay in front of you is not an easy thing. I am very proud of my grandma for all those years she lived independently. I am going to give her the dignity she deserves!
On our way back I surprise her with a coke from McDonald's; that made her day so much brighter! It's the small things now that make a difference. I am going to keep up with the small things!
Sunday, December 25, 2011
Growing old gracefully
I see her sitting there dozing in her big black comfy chair. Never before would you she let you catch her catnapping, but the years have taken a toll on her body. The once smooth skin is full of wrinkles, the dark brown hair is now snow white, the body that could move quickly now is in pain by merely sitting and the mucsles that could lift and move objects now have a hard time just moving her body.
Instead of the hard working busy grandmother that she has always been, she has now become what I like to call a "Lady of Leisure". I love that lady dozing in her chair! My heart aches for her as she can no longer reside by herself. It was her deepest desire to grow old gracefully and independently.
She loves her little two bedroom bungalow that sits on a hill. She has many memories stored from living in the same place for over sixty years! She and her husband raised their two children, she mourned the loss of their son, the death of her husband, the birth of grandchildren and not to mention the dogs that had become part of her family. The annual garden that was located behind the house gradually decreased in size as her ability to care for the garden decreased. Her lilac bushes were her pride and joy and the fact she continually fed the birds all year long. The small menial tasks of pruning and filling the bird feeder became difficult and basically impossible for her body to perform.
Her home can no longer be her residence. The body has aged much in 91 years and now requires more care and attention. She now requires monitoring of medicine and personal care. This obvisiously can not happen in her home alone. She has been relocated to a home where she can be monitored. Fortunately, the place allows for her to feel somewhat independent, but yet she knows she is being taken care of by them. She has her favorite pictures on the walls in her pink spacious bedroom along with her two favorite chairs. I catch her frequently in her big comfy chair just dozing.
Whoever came up with the saying "growing old gracefullly" did not grow very old. If you have had to take for an elderly or maybe you currently are then you know it's far from the truth. The saying should be "growing old with dignity"! My grandmother has done that well. She has been independent for over 20 years after my grandfather died. She could do many things without assistance for many of those years. Her body slowly declined in the past 5 years, but through it all she has kept her dignity. I intend to honor her dignity as her body declines in the next years or months. She has served others selflessly for years so in return I can make sure she continues to grow old with dignity. If you are caring for an elderly please consider my more recent saying "growing old with dignity" and try to honor them in that way.
Instead of the hard working busy grandmother that she has always been, she has now become what I like to call a "Lady of Leisure". I love that lady dozing in her chair! My heart aches for her as she can no longer reside by herself. It was her deepest desire to grow old gracefully and independently.
She loves her little two bedroom bungalow that sits on a hill. She has many memories stored from living in the same place for over sixty years! She and her husband raised their two children, she mourned the loss of their son, the death of her husband, the birth of grandchildren and not to mention the dogs that had become part of her family. The annual garden that was located behind the house gradually decreased in size as her ability to care for the garden decreased. Her lilac bushes were her pride and joy and the fact she continually fed the birds all year long. The small menial tasks of pruning and filling the bird feeder became difficult and basically impossible for her body to perform.
Her home can no longer be her residence. The body has aged much in 91 years and now requires more care and attention. She now requires monitoring of medicine and personal care. This obvisiously can not happen in her home alone. She has been relocated to a home where she can be monitored. Fortunately, the place allows for her to feel somewhat independent, but yet she knows she is being taken care of by them. She has her favorite pictures on the walls in her pink spacious bedroom along with her two favorite chairs. I catch her frequently in her big comfy chair just dozing.
Whoever came up with the saying "growing old gracefullly" did not grow very old. If you have had to take for an elderly or maybe you currently are then you know it's far from the truth. The saying should be "growing old with dignity"! My grandmother has done that well. She has been independent for over 20 years after my grandfather died. She could do many things without assistance for many of those years. Her body slowly declined in the past 5 years, but through it all she has kept her dignity. I intend to honor her dignity as her body declines in the next years or months. She has served others selflessly for years so in return I can make sure she continues to grow old with dignity. If you are caring for an elderly please consider my more recent saying "growing old with dignity" and try to honor them in that way.
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Fragile - Handle With Care
I am sure you are thinking that by reading the title I am going to write about packages. It is that time of year when we are buying gifts and sending them out to loved ones. But alas, NO! This is about our human life. The human life is fragile. God did not design us for immortality, but rather as mere mortals.
I have recently gone through watching a loved one pass away. My step sister, Pam, was only 52 years old. She never married, but loved children. I have great memories of her when I was young. She was a great gymnast and we would move all the furniture in the living room to make room for Pam to teach us gymnastics. We had a blast, those were great times. Pam also loved playing the guitar and she had a wonderful voice. Since she was twelve years older than myself she had moved out, but she would visit often.
The past several years for Pam were more difficult for her. She had developed some medical issues. The doctors were watching her closely since she opted out of having surgery. Time took its toll on her little body and she ended up passing away just Monday November 28. It was a sad ordeal to watch her lay there hooked up to bags and tubes. It was much worse to watch her twin sister try to cope with knowing she was losing that bond.
I found great peace in knowing that Pam no longer suffers and I know she had accepted Christ as Saviour. I think that makes death so much more acceptable for the loved ones left behind.
My greatest urge is for others not to avoid going to the doctors if you are seriously ill and even more consider all options of your medical issues. God gave us these temporary bodies here on Earth and gave us some guidance with taking care of our bodies. In 1 Corinthians 6 verses 19 and 20 we are reminded that our bodies are a temple of Christ and we are to honor God with our bodies. So that means taking care of it. Our human bodies are fragile, they were designed by our Creator that way and we need to take that seriously.
I have recently gone through watching a loved one pass away. My step sister, Pam, was only 52 years old. She never married, but loved children. I have great memories of her when I was young. She was a great gymnast and we would move all the furniture in the living room to make room for Pam to teach us gymnastics. We had a blast, those were great times. Pam also loved playing the guitar and she had a wonderful voice. Since she was twelve years older than myself she had moved out, but she would visit often.
The past several years for Pam were more difficult for her. She had developed some medical issues. The doctors were watching her closely since she opted out of having surgery. Time took its toll on her little body and she ended up passing away just Monday November 28. It was a sad ordeal to watch her lay there hooked up to bags and tubes. It was much worse to watch her twin sister try to cope with knowing she was losing that bond.
I found great peace in knowing that Pam no longer suffers and I know she had accepted Christ as Saviour. I think that makes death so much more acceptable for the loved ones left behind.
My greatest urge is for others not to avoid going to the doctors if you are seriously ill and even more consider all options of your medical issues. God gave us these temporary bodies here on Earth and gave us some guidance with taking care of our bodies. In 1 Corinthians 6 verses 19 and 20 we are reminded that our bodies are a temple of Christ and we are to honor God with our bodies. So that means taking care of it. Our human bodies are fragile, they were designed by our Creator that way and we need to take that seriously.
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Pumpkin Lesson
We live in town so our land is not nearly as large as those who live out in the country; however, we do have a fairly decent lot size. The neighborhood kids tend to gather in our yard for a game of capture the flag, football, soccer or whatever they dream up.
Last year we did our pumpkin carving outside and some of our neighbors came to join in the fun. We had a grand time! As the pumpkins began to rot we threw them in our big leaf burning pile. We had diminished the pile down before tossing the pumpkin remains in, but as you are all aware leafs come down every fall!
This past summer a curious looking vine started to emerge from the leaf pile. I was excited because I thought it was going to be watermelons. It wasn't just a weed, that I knew. My neighbor told me it could be pumpkins. She asked if we had tossed anything into our pile and I told her it could be pumpkins or watermelons. It was exciting to see the development of our surprise plant!
Then it started to bear fruit! The kids were amazed and we would check on the growth of mystery plant very often. We still were not quite sure if we had watermelons or pumpkins. The fruit began to develop even more and fortunately my neighbor has a pumpkin book and we were able to quickly decipher that we indeed had pumpkins growing in our leaf pile!
I told my neighbor that this would make great lessons in our life's journey.
These seeds were thrown into this pile and went thru fire, rain, snow and all sorts of conditions and what did we enjoy from their perile? Three great looking pumpkins for us to enjoy this fall! If we as Christians can go through our trials under all sorts of pressure and nasty conditions what we will look like at the outcome?
The Old Testament book of Malachi talks about God being like refiner's fire. In Chapter 3 verse 2 it states, "But who can endure the day of his coming? Who can stand when he appears? For he will be like a refiner's fire or a launderer's soap." Our God will refine his believers to make us more pure. We can have a greater outcome bearing more fruit like our pumpkins.
Last year we did our pumpkin carving outside and some of our neighbors came to join in the fun. We had a grand time! As the pumpkins began to rot we threw them in our big leaf burning pile. We had diminished the pile down before tossing the pumpkin remains in, but as you are all aware leafs come down every fall!
This past summer a curious looking vine started to emerge from the leaf pile. I was excited because I thought it was going to be watermelons. It wasn't just a weed, that I knew. My neighbor told me it could be pumpkins. She asked if we had tossed anything into our pile and I told her it could be pumpkins or watermelons. It was exciting to see the development of our surprise plant!
Then it started to bear fruit! The kids were amazed and we would check on the growth of mystery plant very often. We still were not quite sure if we had watermelons or pumpkins. The fruit began to develop even more and fortunately my neighbor has a pumpkin book and we were able to quickly decipher that we indeed had pumpkins growing in our leaf pile!
I told my neighbor that this would make great lessons in our life's journey.
These seeds were thrown into this pile and went thru fire, rain, snow and all sorts of conditions and what did we enjoy from their perile? Three great looking pumpkins for us to enjoy this fall! If we as Christians can go through our trials under all sorts of pressure and nasty conditions what we will look like at the outcome?
The Old Testament book of Malachi talks about God being like refiner's fire. In Chapter 3 verse 2 it states, "But who can endure the day of his coming? Who can stand when he appears? For he will be like a refiner's fire or a launderer's soap." Our God will refine his believers to make us more pure. We can have a greater outcome bearing more fruit like our pumpkins.
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Cherished
I awoke Friday morning to the voice of my husband declaring, "We are going out on a date tomorrow night." I was surprised at this and commented, "Really?"
He replied, "Yes, it's been a long time since we've had a date night."
This was very true. We have three kids which are homeschooled, they have activities, we lead our Junior High at our church and plus we help take care of my very elderly grandmother. So you can read just from this list that we have not made a "date night" a priority.
We had been talking about our date night during the day on Friday and both agreed how much we were looking forward to it. Then his phone notifies him of a text message.
A friend had an extra ticket for the U of M game for that Saturday as was inviting Tom. Wow! A free ticket to a game at the Big House! What a dilemma for a guy to be in! My husband amazed me as he tossed the idea around and my two sons were witnessing this whole ordeal. My husband texted his buddy back thanking him for the offer; however, he had made plans with his wife. Now for all the women reading this don't go question your husband or go ahead, just don't get mad at his answer.
I felt cherished! He had given up a great deal just for me. I am very thankful for the decision he made, but even more thankful that my two boys could see this. My husband lived out the scripture found in Ephesians 5:28 "In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself."
My husband his love towards me by passing up U of M football tickets.
I would love to tell you that we had a great date night Saturday night; unfortunately that was not the case. I ended up with a migraine that ended my evening in the quiet sanctuary of my bedroom. However, my husband did not hold a grudge. He poured out more love for me by assisting my needs for pain medication and my pick for dinner. I am so thankful for the man I married and his Godly characteristics he has inherited from our Heavenly Father.
I am truly cherished!
He replied, "Yes, it's been a long time since we've had a date night."
This was very true. We have three kids which are homeschooled, they have activities, we lead our Junior High at our church and plus we help take care of my very elderly grandmother. So you can read just from this list that we have not made a "date night" a priority.
We had been talking about our date night during the day on Friday and both agreed how much we were looking forward to it. Then his phone notifies him of a text message.
A friend had an extra ticket for the U of M game for that Saturday as was inviting Tom. Wow! A free ticket to a game at the Big House! What a dilemma for a guy to be in! My husband amazed me as he tossed the idea around and my two sons were witnessing this whole ordeal. My husband texted his buddy back thanking him for the offer; however, he had made plans with his wife. Now for all the women reading this don't go question your husband or go ahead, just don't get mad at his answer.
I felt cherished! He had given up a great deal just for me. I am very thankful for the decision he made, but even more thankful that my two boys could see this. My husband lived out the scripture found in Ephesians 5:28 "In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself."
My husband his love towards me by passing up U of M football tickets.
I would love to tell you that we had a great date night Saturday night; unfortunately that was not the case. I ended up with a migraine that ended my evening in the quiet sanctuary of my bedroom. However, my husband did not hold a grudge. He poured out more love for me by assisting my needs for pain medication and my pick for dinner. I am so thankful for the man I married and his Godly characteristics he has inherited from our Heavenly Father.
I am truly cherished!
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Time to Share
Part of our homeschool day involves us reading out of the Bible. Lately, I have been letting my boys pick what scripture they would like to hear from. This has been great because it has given them some freedom in deciding what area they would like to learn and they are more eager to listen since they chose. It has also led to great discussion and this morning was a very good discussion.
My oldest son seems to enjoy the book of Revelation so he chose for us to read Chapters 20 and 21. We had stopped periodically to discuss the chapter and once we had finished Chapter 20 they both had huge eyes and I could tell they wanted to share their thoughts with me.
My middle child, second son, has been attempting to witness to a neighbor teen. He has given him the basics of salvation, but this teen is stubborn. After reading this chapter both of my sons recommend that this neighbor teen read this part of Revelation.
The boys pointed out that God is very clear on salvation and if one does not believe in Jesus Christ and their name is not in the Book of Life then they will be cast into the Lake of Fire.
My sons said, "This would be good to share for those who don't believe."
I couldn't agree more with them. I then realized that I should be wanting to share like my boys and witnessing to those who are unsaved. I would not wish to see my friends, family, co-workers, ect. cast into the Lake of Fire when I could have done something about it.
Let us have that desire to share like my middle child! I admire him for that! He is a good testimony to us all!
My oldest son seems to enjoy the book of Revelation so he chose for us to read Chapters 20 and 21. We had stopped periodically to discuss the chapter and once we had finished Chapter 20 they both had huge eyes and I could tell they wanted to share their thoughts with me.
My middle child, second son, has been attempting to witness to a neighbor teen. He has given him the basics of salvation, but this teen is stubborn. After reading this chapter both of my sons recommend that this neighbor teen read this part of Revelation.
The boys pointed out that God is very clear on salvation and if one does not believe in Jesus Christ and their name is not in the Book of Life then they will be cast into the Lake of Fire.
My sons said, "This would be good to share for those who don't believe."
I couldn't agree more with them. I then realized that I should be wanting to share like my boys and witnessing to those who are unsaved. I would not wish to see my friends, family, co-workers, ect. cast into the Lake of Fire when I could have done something about it.
Let us have that desire to share like my middle child! I admire him for that! He is a good testimony to us all!
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Book Review of The Bait of Satan
Recently, the ladies book club I meet with decided to read The Bait of Satan by John Bevere. I have had this book for many years and often refer to it during struggles. I highly recommend this book for all believers!
The Bait of Satan is a well written book that can be of assistance to fellow believers. The book helps believers deal with being offended. Let's face the facts; we all will be offended some time in our life! It is how we deal with the offense that matters most. Do we let the offense simmer into bitterness? Or do we challenge ourselves to grow and not let the offense take hold? Obviously as believers we know what God would desire of us.
I have been offended by others and I admit it is not easy to just let go! Some of the offenses have taken time for me to work through and forgive those who have offended. Both my husband and I have found this book to be very helpful during such times.
John Bevere refers to many scriptural passages to back up his crucial points. He gives great life examples and many are about himself. This is very refreshing to read and encouraging to know that no one is exempt from being offended.
Every and I do mean EVERY believer should read this book at least once. I strongly urge fellow believers to buy a copy, because we all know that there will be a time when we are offended.
The Bait of Satan is a well written book that can be of assistance to fellow believers. The book helps believers deal with being offended. Let's face the facts; we all will be offended some time in our life! It is how we deal with the offense that matters most. Do we let the offense simmer into bitterness? Or do we challenge ourselves to grow and not let the offense take hold? Obviously as believers we know what God would desire of us.
I have been offended by others and I admit it is not easy to just let go! Some of the offenses have taken time for me to work through and forgive those who have offended. Both my husband and I have found this book to be very helpful during such times.
John Bevere refers to many scriptural passages to back up his crucial points. He gives great life examples and many are about himself. This is very refreshing to read and encouraging to know that no one is exempt from being offended.
Every and I do mean EVERY believer should read this book at least once. I strongly urge fellow believers to buy a copy, because we all know that there will be a time when we are offended.
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Caregiving moments
I have had the added responsibility of being a caregiver the past five years. My grandmother who will be turning 91 in a week and also my great aunt who has gone home to be with the Lord now. These two sweet (not always) ladies have given me frustrations and blessings. My great aunt was diagnosed with dementia and if you have never dealth with dementia then you have no idea what we went through. I can recall her calling my mom one time and telling her that she had kangaroos in her backyard. We all live in Michigan, so no kangaroos. Dementia is a sad disease, it is hard to watch a loved one lose their mind and faculties. I highly recommend that you need to keep your sense of humor. That worked for all of us as we took care of my great aunt. Our greatest blessing in disguise is that she suffered a horrible stroke and that took her instead of watching her slowly die from the results of dementia. God is good all the time!
My grandmother is my other major concern now. She is a stubborn (wonder where I get it from?) woman. She calls is "determined". She had a fall back in December which left her with a permanently broken shoulder. She refuses to move out of her home and insists that she can take care of herself. She does not see how much we do for her to keep her in her own home.
This has become very overwhelming for me as I am homeschooling my three kids and one of them will now be a freshman in highschool. My plate has become full and I have grown weary from the burden of caregiving. I love my grandmother and want her wishes followed, but I just feel overburdened. I feel like it's only up to me.
This is when God shows me verses and brings me out of my pity parties and lets me know I am not alone and the promises He has given us. I really enjoy the book of Hebrews! I have found many verses to be applicable to my life right now. Hebrews 6:10 says, "God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people and continue to help them." The following verses after this tell of our inheritance that has been promised.
What a great God we serve! He will give us an inheritance, He is not unjust. He knows what I am going through! He knows my burden and He promises that if I keep up my work I will be rewarded! That definetly snaps me out of my self pity party and puts the focus back on God where it should be in the first place. I encourage you to read through Hebrews as well. Especially if you are in a caregiver moment.
My grandmother is my other major concern now. She is a stubborn (wonder where I get it from?) woman. She calls is "determined". She had a fall back in December which left her with a permanently broken shoulder. She refuses to move out of her home and insists that she can take care of herself. She does not see how much we do for her to keep her in her own home.
This has become very overwhelming for me as I am homeschooling my three kids and one of them will now be a freshman in highschool. My plate has become full and I have grown weary from the burden of caregiving. I love my grandmother and want her wishes followed, but I just feel overburdened. I feel like it's only up to me.
This is when God shows me verses and brings me out of my pity parties and lets me know I am not alone and the promises He has given us. I really enjoy the book of Hebrews! I have found many verses to be applicable to my life right now. Hebrews 6:10 says, "God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people and continue to help them." The following verses after this tell of our inheritance that has been promised.
What a great God we serve! He will give us an inheritance, He is not unjust. He knows what I am going through! He knows my burden and He promises that if I keep up my work I will be rewarded! That definetly snaps me out of my self pity party and puts the focus back on God where it should be in the first place. I encourage you to read through Hebrews as well. Especially if you are in a caregiver moment.
Sunday, August 28, 2011
Cheerleaders
Cheerleaders? You mean those cute perky girls who jump all around and do backflips, splits and all sorts of crazy chants? NO, I just had to use this as a title because it sounds good. The more appropriate word is Encourager.
I ran my 5K Saturday and I hit my goal of making the 3.1 miles in under 40 minutes! I was very happy with myself. But even better was having my "cheerleaders" there watching me and yelling for me to finish my race. One of my sons even ran some of the tail end of the race with me and was coaching me "Come on Mom, you got this!" My family gave me wonderful support and encouragement Saturday morning. I was so nervous; my mouth was dry, my hands were shaking, I was confused on where to go and getting my registration packet. But my calm husband just gently lead me to the right place and helped me with my timing device. He was being a very understanding cheerleader!
I was thinking back of the race and of all the preparation for this 5K and how my friends and family have been my cheerleaders and it reminded me of Ecclesiastes 4:9 - 12, "Two are better than one, because they get a good return for their work; If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three starnds is not quickly broken."
Many times during my training runs my children would ride their bikes along beside me and encourage me to keep going. Sometimes they would be out playing in the yard and when I passed by I would get my cheerleaders spurring me on to the next loop. Or having a friend running right along side me; training for the same big event. What a great feeling! To know that I have cheerleaders out there who love me and wish for me to do well in my endeavors! And just think I have an even bigger cheerleader who will never leave me and is always rooting for me! I am truly blessed!
I ran my 5K Saturday and I hit my goal of making the 3.1 miles in under 40 minutes! I was very happy with myself. But even better was having my "cheerleaders" there watching me and yelling for me to finish my race. One of my sons even ran some of the tail end of the race with me and was coaching me "Come on Mom, you got this!" My family gave me wonderful support and encouragement Saturday morning. I was so nervous; my mouth was dry, my hands were shaking, I was confused on where to go and getting my registration packet. But my calm husband just gently lead me to the right place and helped me with my timing device. He was being a very understanding cheerleader!
I was thinking back of the race and of all the preparation for this 5K and how my friends and family have been my cheerleaders and it reminded me of Ecclesiastes 4:9 - 12, "Two are better than one, because they get a good return for their work; If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three starnds is not quickly broken."
Many times during my training runs my children would ride their bikes along beside me and encourage me to keep going. Sometimes they would be out playing in the yard and when I passed by I would get my cheerleaders spurring me on to the next loop. Or having a friend running right along side me; training for the same big event. What a great feeling! To know that I have cheerleaders out there who love me and wish for me to do well in my endeavors! And just think I have an even bigger cheerleader who will never leave me and is always rooting for me! I am truly blessed!
Monday, August 22, 2011
Running with Peace
My big 5K race is coming up quick, it's only FIVE days away! I'm panicking about it now because my run today was not what I expected. A couple of days ago I went out for my walk/jog run of 3 miles and I felt great. My body parts were all in a great sync. I ran the first mile in 10 minutes; I was stoked! I finished my route within my goal time. It was an overall great experience. I felt very prepared for this big 5K race. Then, today I went out again. Unfortunately, I did not have the same feeling of running peace I had felt previously. I got a huge cramp in my side, my calves were screaming at me, my breathing was off and my wardrobe was not cooperating! It was a bad run! I managed to complete my run within my goal time; however, overall I was not at peace with myself.
Then the notion hit me: Isn't our Christian life just like that? We have great moments in our journey with God. Our day is going superbly well and we can just sing a happy little tune while going along our merry way. We have that wonderful peace! Or we could be experiencing a "bad run". Things are not moving along so merrily. We don't have that peace we so desire.
I can recall times in my journey where this applied. I was not walking in the footsteps laid out by my Savior. I did not have peace in my life. I can happily report that I did align my steps correctly and that has made all the difference. The prophet Isaiah states this in 26:3 "You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you." What a great reminder for us when we are having those "bad runs". In John 16:33 Jesus says, "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." When (not if) I am going through trials, then I know I need to keep my focus on Jesus and He will give me peace. He will give me my "good run" in life's journey!
Then the notion hit me: Isn't our Christian life just like that? We have great moments in our journey with God. Our day is going superbly well and we can just sing a happy little tune while going along our merry way. We have that wonderful peace! Or we could be experiencing a "bad run". Things are not moving along so merrily. We don't have that peace we so desire.
I can recall times in my journey where this applied. I was not walking in the footsteps laid out by my Savior. I did not have peace in my life. I can happily report that I did align my steps correctly and that has made all the difference. The prophet Isaiah states this in 26:3 "You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you." What a great reminder for us when we are having those "bad runs". In John 16:33 Jesus says, "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." When (not if) I am going through trials, then I know I need to keep my focus on Jesus and He will give me peace. He will give me my "good run" in life's journey!
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Goal Markers
I stated in my previous blog that I'm running a 5K soon and trying to get my body prepared for this race. I have started what my friends and I call "wogging", a combination of walking and jogging. I place mental "goal markers" for where I walk and where I resume my jog. The more I have been wogging the longer I make my "goal markers". This helps me to push myself each time I am out wogging. I try to do better than the time before. I have noticed improvement, slight but improved. Do you have "goal markers" for your life? As I was thinking about my goal markers for running I began to ponder on my "goal markers" for my life, my kids, home, school, work, church and spiritual growth. Am I being consistent in all areas of my life? I had to answer truthfully. . .NO! GASP! I know I'm being real here and we all fall short in some area of our lives.
I tend to set "goal markers" for my kids. That seems easy enough because we homeschool and it's a matter of them understanding their work and then moving on to the next level. I really slack when it comes to the home. Housekeeping is not one of my strong suits, I admit it. I struggle with chores and really had to get myself more organized by making a chore chart for the kids and me. Since we have started this chore chart, I have noticed I feel better about my home and that I am slowly working to becoming a better housekeeper.
The area I think I need to set some better "goal markers" for is my spiritual growth. Let's just be honest here, I put aside my spiritual "goal markers" because. . . I am busy, it's not a priority, I have other things to do and the list goes on. This is where I give myself a little talk and say, "Jill, if you're not growing then what are you doing? How do you expect your kids to grow?" Yeah, I talk to myself; another honest moment. I need to be setting spiritual goal markers, these are much more important in my relationship with Christ than me running a 5K! I often think on Hebrews 12:1 ". . . let us run with perservance the race marked out before us." I like to imagine God has "goal markers" for me and that when I am working on my spiritual growth then I am obtaining those markers. Makes me happy to think I am pleasing my Heavenly Father. Let us all run the race God has set for us and let us not grow weary!
I tend to set "goal markers" for my kids. That seems easy enough because we homeschool and it's a matter of them understanding their work and then moving on to the next level. I really slack when it comes to the home. Housekeeping is not one of my strong suits, I admit it. I struggle with chores and really had to get myself more organized by making a chore chart for the kids and me. Since we have started this chore chart, I have noticed I feel better about my home and that I am slowly working to becoming a better housekeeper.
The area I think I need to set some better "goal markers" for is my spiritual growth. Let's just be honest here, I put aside my spiritual "goal markers" because. . . I am busy, it's not a priority, I have other things to do and the list goes on. This is where I give myself a little talk and say, "Jill, if you're not growing then what are you doing? How do you expect your kids to grow?" Yeah, I talk to myself; another honest moment. I need to be setting spiritual goal markers, these are much more important in my relationship with Christ than me running a 5K! I often think on Hebrews 12:1 ". . . let us run with perservance the race marked out before us." I like to imagine God has "goal markers" for me and that when I am working on my spiritual growth then I am obtaining those markers. Makes me happy to think I am pleasing my Heavenly Father. Let us all run the race God has set for us and let us not grow weary!
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
My Exercise Verse
Do you have a favorite verse or qoute that is stored away in your brain for those moments in life? I have categorized some of my favorite verses, I have a few qoutes that I like as well. My favorite exercise verse is Hebrews 12:11, "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness for those who have been trained by it."
I was given this verse many years ago by a friend who is a personal trainer. At that time I thought, "How appropriate". I am now attempting to run a 5K and let's just say it's taken my body some adjusting to the running thing again. When I am out running or even strength training this verse often comes to the forefront of my mind. Yet this verse isn't just meant for physical exercise. This verse can cover a multitude of areas in our life. Discipline is painful; sometimes very painful! However, when we look at the prize or goal to be obtained we know that the discipline is necassary.
I encourage you to think on this verse when you are going to thru trials, because let's face it, trials are painful. Our outcome is the righteousness that God desires of us. When we take the focus off of ourselves and place it on God and the possible reward God will bestowing on us it does make the discipline a little more bearable.
My race is coming up soon in about two weeks and I will be chugging along and reminding myself of this verse almost every step of the way until I cross that finish line. As my life's journey continues I will be reminding myself of this favorite verse until I cross the ULTIMATE FINISH LINE and receive my heavenly reward.
I was given this verse many years ago by a friend who is a personal trainer. At that time I thought, "How appropriate". I am now attempting to run a 5K and let's just say it's taken my body some adjusting to the running thing again. When I am out running or even strength training this verse often comes to the forefront of my mind. Yet this verse isn't just meant for physical exercise. This verse can cover a multitude of areas in our life. Discipline is painful; sometimes very painful! However, when we look at the prize or goal to be obtained we know that the discipline is necassary.
I encourage you to think on this verse when you are going to thru trials, because let's face it, trials are painful. Our outcome is the righteousness that God desires of us. When we take the focus off of ourselves and place it on God and the possible reward God will bestowing on us it does make the discipline a little more bearable.
My race is coming up soon in about two weeks and I will be chugging along and reminding myself of this verse almost every step of the way until I cross that finish line. As my life's journey continues I will be reminding myself of this favorite verse until I cross the ULTIMATE FINISH LINE and receive my heavenly reward.
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Welcome to Jill's Journey
Greeting readers!
Welcome to my first blog, Jill's Journey. My goal is to share my life stories whether it be homeschooling, family, church or everyday life situations. This blog will hopefully be an encouragement to you as we all travel the journey of life.
We are called to run the race set before us. My race may be different than yours, but hopefully you can relate in some fashion to find solace in your race!
Thanks for reading and more will be following soon.
Welcome to my first blog, Jill's Journey. My goal is to share my life stories whether it be homeschooling, family, church or everyday life situations. This blog will hopefully be an encouragement to you as we all travel the journey of life.
We are called to run the race set before us. My race may be different than yours, but hopefully you can relate in some fashion to find solace in your race!
Thanks for reading and more will be following soon.
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